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They obsess over their need to have a girlfriend, demonstrating clingy and needy behavior. And when they do meet girls they like, they usually scare them away because of this. Or the girl requests an exclusively sexual relationship without a chance for romance. Men who are struggling to understand how to attract women, or get their dating life “handled”… as well as experienced players too… they find it difficult to get a girlfriend, for different reasons. The journey of forming incredible relationships with amazing women, that dream future of yours, doesn’t start with changing what you’re doing and how you’re talking but taking control and responsibility for how you feel.
Luckily, you’re in the right place for that, as I have a shit-ton of content about how to talk to girls and have better conversations. Hell, I even wrote a best-selling book about how to talk to girls. If you don’t know how to talk to girls, you won’t be able to connect deeply enough to have a relationship with them. This approach will prevent you from jumping into something serious with a girl you’re not all that crazy about. It’ll also lead to a more healthy relationship whenever you do get into one.
If her life is complicated or she doesn’t want a relationship, you will have to decide whether to continue getting to know her or to try a different girl. Going to a university is a big change in a person’s life. At a university, you have the freedom to go where you please and create your own schedule without anyone telling you what to do.
If you know her from school or she’s already a friend then just ask her straight up, “Do you want to go out with me on Saturday night? ” Don’t start sweating or stuttering, just say it with confidence.
But also, you’ll know that there are several good women out there who you could be with. And this will stop you from acting needy or clingy. There are 7 billion people on Earth, and 3.5 billion of them are women. Of those, 2 billion are potentially datable. You do the math.
- Always stay honest.
- So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’.
- What’s more, it’ll help you manage the relationship so she sticks around and even gets addicted to being with you.
- If you know her from school or she’s already a friend then just ask her straight up, “Do you want to go out with me on Saturday night?
Take the High Road
Plenty of people reject the idea of labels, but it helps to call her your girlfriend when is she your girlfriend. It sets parameters and expectations. The key to making the transition from meeting someone to sleeping with them is seeding the idea early on. If sex has been part of the conversation from the start, it should just be a natural progression from the restaurant to the bedroom.
Stop working on how to get a girlfriend and start focusing on how to be a better boyfriend. Start working on creating that space that she’s drawn to. As I mentioned earlier, you can’t time when that right someone will walk into your life.
Just build a connection. You’ll get better at talking to women and understanding them as well.
Of course, if the situation leads to sex it’s great but don’t push it! If the two of you end up in a relationship you will have more- and better sex than any single guy, so don’t push it with the sex! If she wants to wait encourage her.
This one is a little gutsier, and you’re going to want to be pretty sure she’s going to say yes before you put your heart out on a limb. Understand you are putting the pressure on her when you ask her out in front of a crowd of people. A good route to ask a girl out and make her feel special is to write a note on the bottom of her morning beverage. It may take a few times buying her morning latte before you muster up the courage to ask her out, but trust me, it’s super worth it.